The Game.

When i inspect the current situation i laugh at how nothing fits, you act in a certain way then i act based on your action. after that the situation unravels itself , we spend the time thinking on how to fix the situation we've caused. You look at me , hear my tone of voice and explain that im no longer interested, I say you're wrong and im just tired from the long day i had, You think im hiding something and you begin to wonder what it is. Slowly you grow distant while i wonder whats going on?
After a short while we no longer talk or laugh like we used to, i ask you what is wrong and you answer " nothing" , i fear your sick, i ask if your feeling ok , you say " im fine" i believe you and let the case rest.

Somehow you're always unpleased with what you see. I am always doing something you dont agree with. i come up the stairs and can hear you turning in bed to begin acting like you are sleeping. little do you know i have watched you sleep many times and know the difference between whats real and whats fake. When you shower you cry. When i drive i am angry.

you wait for me to make the first move and i dont know you are waiting, you wait more and get restless and i begin to think this restlessness is annoyance from you to me. Because i adore you i leave.

I call to ask how you are ? and you yell. now i confirm the annoyance. So i dont call again. And you dont call. Weeks pass with no touch.

If she calls she putting herself down. If i call then im giving in to something i dont understand. she does not call because she is waiting for my call. i dont call because im sick of all this.
she still does not call because it has to come from me if i truely want her.

Does this sound familiar???
I call this "The Game" the stupid people in relationships play today with each other instead of just sitting down and confronting each other. Stop being dumb and gather up the guts to fix the problem. Who ever came up with "Game Over" was a genius!